horrific things may take place, we must help one another. and we owe it to those kids who are no longer there, because there will be some survivor guilt. that's something that a lot of people have not talked about. the way to attack that, the way to deal with it, is by going back to school. so being as gentle and as responsive and as understanding as we can, with our children and understanding that fear, but taking them by the hand, not forcing them, but together, going in, and saying, okay, i will help you, but you help mom and dad, to be able to deal with this, let's go into this school together. let's go and get this education, together. >> great advice, jeff guardier, appreciate it as always. >> we're all grieving for newtown, connecticut. we're all grieving and when we return, the signs of support, the words of encouragement and a memorial to the victims, we'll show it to you.